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4 Newlywed Assumptions to Leave at the Door

4 Newlywed Assumptions to Leave at the Door

By Premarital, Relationship DynamicsOne Comment

As newlyweds, you probably have lots of ideas of what your marriage will look like. Maybe you have certain expectations about the way holidays will look or how you’ll run your household. Perhaps you think you know the areas on which you agree and the things you’re still figuring out. The reality is, many newlyweds carry sneaky assumptions with them as they cross the threshold into married life. Often, these assumptions are at odds with reality – and the result is conflict that catches couples off-guard. If you want to avoid the common newlywed arguments, here are 4 assumptions to leave at the door: Read More

August 5, 2026
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Premarital Counseling - The Pitfalls of Pretending

Premarital Counseling: The Pitfalls of Pretending

By Premarital4 Comments

Do you tell your doctor everything is great while concealing that weird rash? When you bring your car into the shop, do you say it’s running fine when it’s actually been making some very concerning noises? If the dentist asks if you’re feeling any pain, do you pretend that molar hasn’t been bothering you lately?

Sometimes it’s tempting to gloss over problems or pretend they don’t exist. It feels like the easier option in the moment, but ultimately, you’re only shorting yourself. Neither your doctor nor your auto mechanic or dentist can help you if you paint an inaccurate picture of what’s going on.

Unfortunately, when it comes to premarital counseling, many couples make this very mistake. They present an idealized version of their relationship, wearing a mask to hide perceived flaws or imperfections. Read More

July 29, 2026
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3 Major Wedding Planning Stressors

3 Major Wedding Planning Stressors

By PremaritalOne Comment

Engagement is often touted as one of the most exciting times of your life. You’re giddy in love with your new fiancé, and you’ve just marked a momentous turning point in your relationship. You know lots of really special moments lie ahead – moments you’ll remember for the rest of your life. In the meantime, you’ve got a wedding to plan.

Little do you know that hiding on the other side of that emotional high is a potential mountain of wedding-related stress. If you’re expecting everything to be breezy and fun, this reality can ruin the whole experience – and strain your relationship, too. We’re not trying to alarm you, but we do want to you to be prepared to face these common sources of stress as you plan your wedding. While we’re at it, we’ll cover some ways to prevent them from ruining your planning experience. Let’s dive in. Read More

July 1, 2026
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Premarital Counseling - Why Mindset Matters

Premarital Counseling: Why Mindset Matters

By Premarital4 Comments

You wake to the buzz of your alarm clock. You stub your toe trying to peek out the window, where you find rain pouring from a dark, gloomy sky. You’ve got a long to-do list for the day. Do you shift into grump-mode, already deciding the day is going to go poorly before it’s even begun? Or do you feel thankful for a break in the dry spell and ready to have a productive day despite the weather? You may not realize it, but your mindset truly does matter. And the same idea applies to premarital counseling.

Going into counseling with your head and heart tuned to the right frequency can be the difference between wasting your time on another pre-wedding task – and having a meaningful experience that sticks with you. Read More

June 24, 2026
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Newlywed Arguments That Are Good For Your Marriage

Newlywed Arguments That Are Good For Your Marriage

By Premarital, Resilience3 Comments

It’s inevitable: the honeymoon period wears off, and you have that first big argument as a married couple. If you were expecting butterflies, rainbows, and happily ever after, it can come as a bit of a surprise. Even if you had a more realistic perspective, it can throw you for a loop.

The truth is, it’s normal for new conflicts to arise once you’re married, and for existing ones to pop up again. Marriage isn’t a cure all. In many ways it can feel it adds complexity to issues and ups the stakes when it comes to resolving them. But conflict is nothing to be afraid of. In fact, working through these common points of contention as newlyweds can actually be good for your marriage in the long run. Read More

October 8, 2025
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Scrap These Marriage Myths Today

Scrap These Marriage Myths Today

By Premarital, Relationship Basics5 Comments

Are you engaged, newly married, or even just hoping to be one day? Chances are, you’ve probably got some preconceived notions about what marriage will be – or should be – like. It’s understandable. Whether it’s through TV, social media, or the internet in general, we’re inundated by different representations of marriage like never before. From the sensationalized and often short-lived celebrity marriages, to the dramatic ultimatums of reality shows, to the relatively normal marriage of your neighbors down the street, it’s hard to know what is actually real and healthy. You can jump in blindly, but having realistic expectations will help you feel happier and more empowered in your marriage. Let’s take a look at three marriage myths you should scrap today. Read More

March 19, 2025
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6 reasons newlywed counseling makes sense

6 Reasons Newlywed Counseling Makes Sense

By Premarital, Relationship Basics2 Comments

If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance you did some form of premarital counseling, and that’s great! It’s a proven and proactive way to get your marriage off on the right foot. Premarital education is where Prepare/Enrich first made its mark over 40 years ago, and it goes without saying that we couldn’t be bigger proponents of it.

But what happens after the wedding, when you start living the real married life? What do you do when you encounter those first big conflicts or need help navigating issues you never could have foreseen before marriage? It seems like this would be a really good time for another check-in on your relationship – in the form of newlywed counseling. Read More

June 12, 2024
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Don't Say Yes to the Wedding Stress

Don’t Say Yes to the Wedding Stress

By Premarital2 Comments

Engagement is often touted as one of the most exciting times of your life. Sure, the actual act of getting engaged might live up to the hype. You’re giddy in love with your new fiancé, and you’ve just marked a momentous turning point in your relationship. You know lots of really special moments lie ahead – moments you’ll remember for the rest of your life. In the meantime, you’ve got a wedding to plan.

Little do you know that hiding on the other side of that emotional high is a potential mountain of wedding-related stress. If you’re not careful, it can ruin the whole experience – and strain your relationship, too. We’re not trying to scare you, but we do want to help you be prepared to face these common sources of stress as you plan your wedding. Let’s dive in. Read More

April 24, 2024
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Engagement Through The First Year - A Newlywed Guide - Part 1

Engagement Through The First Year: A Newlywed Guide – Part 1

By Premarital, Relationship Basics4 Comments

The period of engagement through the first year or two of marriage is quite a ride. You and your spouse – and your relationship – go through a lot of changes and transitions. Leading up to the wedding, you might feel overwhelmed with questions and decisions, not just about the big day, but for your future together. Once you’re married, new challenges arise, new issues develop, and new conflicts erupt (or existing ones take on a new dimension). While you can never fully know what this period will be like for you and your new spouse, you can be prepared so that you’re not completely caught off guard when that honeymoon feeling starts to fade just a bit. Luckily, this newlywed guide has you covered. Read More

June 7, 2023
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Premarital couple facing each other smiling sitting in back of car

Premarital Milestones to Appreciate Even After You’re Married

By Premarital4 Comments

Marriage often seems to mark the start of your lives together. And yet, you had a life together before you were married, too. The milestones you went through when you were dating or engaged can lose a bit of their color with the passage of time and the start of a shiny new chapter of life. However, they are just as important to your story because they got you to where you are now. Here are the premarital milestones to appreciate even after you’re married. Read More

June 29, 2022
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