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7 Times to State The Obvious in Your Marriage

7 Times to State the Obvious in Your Marriage

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You know if you’re tired and burnt out from a long week. You know today is a big day at work. You know exactly what would help you feel better. You know all these things, so your spouse should too, right?

Not necessarily. Often things feel obvious to us because we’re living inside our own heads. Meanwhile, your spouse is living in theirs – with a full plate of their own thoughts, worries, and to-do’s. You can’t see theirs, and guess what? They can’t see yours either. When you expect them to just know, you set up a guessing game that’s hard for either of you to win.

The solution? Actually saying the “obvious” thing out loud. It can feel unnecessary, or even like you’re somehow falling short in your marriage. The truth is, it’s actually helping you avoid a lot of unnecessary frustration and conflict in your marriage. Here are 7 times it’s worth stating the obvious. Read More

October 28, 2026
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Why Getting Called Out Is a Good Thing

Why Getting Called Out is a Good Thing

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No one likes getting called out. Whether it’s your spouse pointing out that you’ve interrupted them three times in one conversation, or noting that your “quick errand” turned into a two-hour disappearance, it can sting – even if it’s true and delivered in a kind way.

At first glance, it might seem like one of you is dropping the ball, one of you is being critical, or both. But here’s the thing: a marriage in which both partners are comfortable calling each other out and willing to hear it, is a healthier marriage than one where no one ever does. This might seem counterintuitive, so let’s dive in. Read More

October 14, 2026
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How Half Listening Undermines Your Marriage

How Half-Listening Undermines Your Marriage

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Your spouse is telling you about their day. There was a big announcement at work that the company is restructuring. You’re listening – mostly. But your phone just dinged with a text from a friend you haven’t heard from in months, and that pot is almost boiling over on the stove. You’re trying to pay attention to what your spouse is saying – they seem a little stressed. But the reality – whether it’s intentional or not – is that you’re only half-listening. Read More

September 2, 2026
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Solution or Support - How to Stop Guessing

Solution or Support? How to Stop Guessing

By Relationship Basics, Resilience3 Comments

When your spouse is struggling, they probably come to you, and vice versa. Having someone to go with your worries, problems, and emotions is one of the big perks of being married. The tricky part is knowing exactly what your spouse is looking for in the moment. Are they looking for moral support or emotional validation? Or are they looking for your perspective or a practical solution? If you’ve ever given the wrong thing at the wrong time, then you know it doesn’t feel great for either of you. What can you do to avoid this? Here are three simple steps to remember. Read More

May 20, 2026
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Why It's Important to Walk the Walk

Why It’s Important to Walk the Walk

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Do you follow through?

It could be something as simple as calling when you said you would or completing a task you started. Or perhaps it’s something bigger, such as working on your communication skills or spending less money to reach a financial goal. Whatever the specifics, walking the walk – following through on the things you initiate – has a big impact on your marriage. Here’s why: Read More

May 13, 2026
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Drop These Habits to Truly Understand Each Other

Drop These Habits to Truly Understand Each Other

By Relationship Basics6 Comments

Does it ever feel like you and your spouse are speaking different languages? Your spouse says something, you interpret it a certain way, and they react to your reply in a way that leaves you baffled. It’s like a childhood game of telephone, but with higher stakes.

Now someone is upset, frustrated, or feeling hurt – where did things go wrong? Here are four habits to drop to understand each other better. Read More

March 18, 2026
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5 Ways You Fight For Your Marriage

5 Ways You Fight for Your Marriage

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A heroic duel to defend your true love… An epic battle to prove you’re meant to be together, against all odds… These scenarios might sound like the ultimate way to fight for each other, but we typically don’t see too many sword fights in honor of love these days. So is it even necessary to fight for each other on any given day? We have to admit, it does sound a bit dramatic. But the truth is, fighting for your marriage means caring enough – and doing what it takes – to make it last a lifetime. And with that in mind, there are ways to fight for your marriage every day – they just don’t look how you’d expect. Here are a few: Read More

February 25, 2026
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4 Areas to Take Initiative in Your Marriage

4 Areas to Take Initiative in Your Marriage

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When you see a problem, do you take the initiative to fix it?

It’s typically pretty easy to point out issues: an ineffective process at work, a constantly messy room in your house, or a higher than usual electric bill. It’s more difficult to actually take action to solve (or improve) the situation at hand. This also applies to your marriage.

Are there aspects of your relationship you know could be better? Instead of waiting for your spouse to take the lead or hoping things magically improve on their own, it’s time to be proactive. Here are areas to take initiative in your marriage this year. Read More

January 14, 2026
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