Full-on weekend date nights are tough to beat, but let’s be honest – they’re not always easy to come by. Whether you’re short on time, money, or babysitters, making quality time happen sometimes requires thinking outside the box. Not only that, if it’s been one of those weeks, you could probably use a little pick-me-up. That’s where midweek mini dates come in! Here are 8 examples to try (and get your own ideas flowing):
1. Share morning coffee or an evening sweet treat.
Kick off your day together by enjoying a few minutes of quiet as you sip your coffee together – on the deck, porch, patio, or even just the kitchen table. Share what your day looks like or what you’re looking forward to. If the evening works better, tuck into a yummy dessert after the kids are in bed. Watch the sunset and savor each others company and conversation.
2. Run an errand.
We know – this probably sounds boring and not very romantic. But if you’re able to sneak away to run a quick errand together (that one of you would have to do anyway), you might be surprised by the fun you end up having. The novelty of hitting up grocery store together when you typically go alone (or with kids), or having someone to commiserate with as you wait in the return line can be an unexpectedly fun way to connect.
3. Go on a walk.
This is a flexible option that offers the winning combination of fresh air, moving your body, and the company of your spouse. Whether it’s a short five minute jaunt around the block or a 30-minute trek exploring a new neighborhood, a simple walk together is a great way to burn off tension in the middle of a stressful week.
4. Have a car lunch.
If it’s logistically possible, meet up for a quick lunch in your car. Grab your favorite fast food or bring something from home. It’s a fun way to connect mid-day, especially if you know you have a busy evening ahead shuttling kids around or if you have separate plans.
5. Enjoy dinner and a movie (at home).
If getting takeout is a treat and you don’t typically watch movies during the week, give yourselves permission to indulge in this classic combo in the comfort of your home.
6. Have a dance party.
Crank up a few of your favorite tunes, your first dance song, or some high energy bops to get the endorphins flowing. You get to choose your vibe, whether it’s slow and romantic or upbeat and silly. This is a great option to help you transition from stressed out work mode to a more relaxed state of mind.
7. Play a quick round.
Whether it’s cards, a board game, or a game of HORSE in the driveway, ignite some friendly competition with your spouse. It’s not always necessary to settle in for an hours long marathon in order to experience the fun of game night!
8. Pick your perfect combination.
Choose any two ideas from the list above, or combine one with one of your own to create your perfect midweek mini date!
Sure, in an ideal world, you and your spouse could enjoy a solid date night whenever you want. In reality, that’s probably not the case. But with intention and the right mindset, even a small pocket of time on a random Wednesday can be the perfect opportunity for connection.
