The holiday chaos is in full swing for many couples. Between traveling to visit family, staying on top of the school and church festivities, and managing all the gift lists and shopping, it’s easy to let quality time with your spouse get pushed to the back burner. While it might seem like you have many other time-sensitive priorities on your plate, that doesn’t mean you should miss out on enjoying this special time of year with your partner. Here are 10 festive date ideas to boost your connection in the midst of the hustle and bustle.
1. See the lights.
Take a drive around town, walk through your neighborhood, or find a pre-planned holiday light tour to check out. Fill the thermos with hot chocolate to sip on as you take in the twinkles.
2. Exchange white elephant gifts.
Set a budget and head to your local thrift store or retailer of your choice. Split up to find each other the perfect silly gift, then reconvene at your favorite restaurant or brewery to open them together over a bite or a drink.
3. Go ice skating.
Head to your local rink for some leisurely laps. If you don’t know how to skate – or it’s been awhile – take a lesson together.
4. Settle in for a holiday movie night.
Choose a classic you both love or make it a double-feature if you have differing opinions. Don’t forget the cozy blankets and your favorite movie snacks!
5. Make holiday treats.
Whether it’s a twist on your favorite sugar cookies or your grandfather’s secret fudge recipe, whip up a batch and enjoy the fruits of your labor together. Not in the mood to indulge in sweets? Hand deliver them to your friends or neighbors.
6. Check off some gifts and grab dinner.
You’ve still got a few gifts to purchase, but you’d like some quality time, too. Why can’t you do both? Team up to cross off those last names on your list, then celebrate with a meal at your favorite spot.
7. Decorate gingerbread houses.
It’s not just for the kids! Have fun picking out all your decorating supplies, then head home for a friendly competition where you flex your candy-fueled creativity.
8. Find a festival or parade.
Nothing says merry like a holiday festival or parade! Soak up the spirited atmosphere and enjoy some people watching during these seasonal celebrations.
9. Attend a holiday party.
You got the invite, but will you go? We say, “Why not?” Whether it’s a shindig hosted by friends, neighbors, or coworkers, hit it up – even if you sneak away early for some quiet.
10. Take a horse-drawn carriage ride.
If you’re lucky enough to have this in your town, take advantage! It’s classically romantic for a reason.
Date nights don’t have to fall by the wayside just because the holidays are hectic. Instead, lean on these date ideas to add some festive sparkle to your typical routine and make the most of what the season has to offer.
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Take a hike/walk. Whether it’s around the block, on a local trail, or in the mountains, it’s a great time to be alone without distractions.