One of the first things we learn about having a successful relationship is that there needs to be healthy, proactive communication. Though, because we are all human, sometimes there is a in this proactivity. You cant turn back time to fix a mistake, but what you can do is aid in... Continue Reading
When it comes to marriage, expectations are one of the first things a marriage counselor, coach, or will encourage you to put on the table and address. Oftentimes, people dont even realize the rigidity of their expectations, or how many they actually have!
Adult couples often squirm in... Continue Reading
Recently, my husband and I had an about how to get rid of some junk in our garage. I wanted to post it on Craigs List for free. He wanted to take it to the dump. I didnt want to pay to get rid of it. He didnt want it sitting on our front yard. We and... Continue Reading
The 2016 Rio Olympics have come to a close and for those who have watched, we have been inspired by seeing the fruits of the Olympians years of preparation and labor. What can we learn from Olympians to inspire our pursuit of a Gold Medal Marriage?
Recently I... Continue Reading
I fight with my husband from time to time. It happens because happens. We disagree, but then we figure it out and move forward. Sounds easy, right? Not exactly, but it is now that he and I understand more about ourselves and our relationship.
Until just recently, every time we disagreed, we... Continue Reading
I will buy water works from you for $250, my husband offered. We were playing our first of Monopoly. Sitting around the board was my daughter who is eight, my son who is ten, my husband Brad, and myself. Having played board games with my husband for 13 plus years, I... Continue Reading
Did you know that routines in a relationship can be valuable?
As a society, we have developed a strikingly negative perspective of falling into a routine in our relationships. We view spontaneity as the ideal norm. With that being said, spontaneity is in a relationship, but routines... Continue Reading
One of the most significant I help couples learn to implement into their conflict process is the time-out. Though Im sure this term makes you think of a toddler sitting in the corner of a kitchen on their mini-stool with a parent standing over them shaking their finger, a time-out in the... Continue Reading
When we think of retirement, we usually think about it in terms of.
When money changes because of retirement, other changes in the happen without much consideration.
I recently sat down with several couples to learn about how retirement impacted their marriages. All had been married for over... Continue Reading
Once your church or community has a trained and
certified PREPARE/ENRICH professional, you might
consider establishing a Marriage Mentor Program
to help premarital couples get more preparation or married couples get the assistance
they need for healthier relationships.